six ways make people like you
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2. Smile
i guess smiling will make people like you. i guess its because it will make others feel welcome or safe around you. also it show your a happy person. in my personal point of view i don't think ill like some always smiling at what ever i say i will 1. creep me out, 2. it will remind me of a clown i hate clowns. but other than that yeah smiling is OK.
3. remember names
now this is important for many reasons but for one it will make you look like a good person and give them a sens that you care. if you don't remember what their is it will only make them feel bad it doesn't feel good when your name is forgotten. it dosnt show that you wanna get to to know them and finally its just rude.
4. be a good listener. encourage others to talk about themselves.
this is a good way to get people to like you because like most of this these ways it show that you care about others. ot also is a good manner. it lets people get comfortable with you then you'll become the best of friends because you guys told eachother everything and no secrets will be kept . then when the time come you'll be able to teach your kids the way of making a good friend and hope that the friendship will last a long time
5. talk in terms of the other man's/women's interest
yeah this is true because especially the women because it shows that you are paying attention to what they say and what they like. its a good way to show that they can really open up to you this starts the trust folder. if you are open with them they can open up to you. i know this buy experience this is how i got the friends today its because they know they can trust me i them. all this can work if you trust one and another.
6. make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely
no fence to other people who like these ways but i don't care for them i mean i don't really care if they like me or not that's on them i can't force them to like me all i know is to be myself and they don't like me for being me then screw them i don't need them. i need friends who know me for me. so i'm going to be the way i am and no one can change that.
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